Sacred space in Times ofIndia on sept.11 had many quotations about saying goodbye .It set me thinking about the inevitability of death and yet we never consider it .And if it comes suddenly there is only regret and heartache .So many words unsaid so many memories not shared ,moments of anger and hurt stored and than there is nothing but regret .But is it really possible never to feel hurt and always to feel so angelic? A wise perason once told me that it is not always possible to control our thoughts but we can control our words and actions . So even at the risk of being considered weak I try to hold my tongue as far as possible cause tomorrow I may regret my anger or there may be no tomorrow for me .