While browsing through old books I came across an interesting one by Susan Jeffers .It is "freeing our selves from the mad myths of parenthood .Well as I am told it is too late for me to read the book or rather free myself from any myths ,But i would certainly like the youngsters to read the book especially the young parents .It lists down the various changes you have to make in your life style once you choose to become a parent .There is a long and rather frightening list of changes to be made .All of it is true but the happiness ,the joy and the pleasure of parenthood out weighs every thing .As regards changes ,the biggest change is that once you are a parent you have allowed your heart to move out of your body . In fact this is the real choice to be made .